Friday, February 25, 2011

Is being Eight years dear Mother...

Dear Mother, Abebi Okin, it's being eight years since you ended your earthly journey.Your prolonged sickness that was later diagnosed as mysthenia gravis, was uncommon but we were looking at something else all the time. The true colour of human nature showed during your predicament. I learnt, I witnessed, I grew up and I suffered, all which you knew and was grateful for. You were a discplinarian with a true heart. You made your mistakes but you would not be judged because your kind is rare. Now there you are and no longer here, a lot is happening but I am staying strong, I pulled myself out of a lot of toxic situations, relationships and events and I wish and hope you would understand. I am doing what is best for me because you taught me well and I miss you for not being here.


My mother, Comfort Bamidele Musiliat Abebi, you are gone but not forgotten. Life is not that rosy but I am stronger, I am the best of me and I am getting better still. I am one independent minded woman, the way you have always thought and noticed. Mother, I have not seen your grave for seven years but you are always present in my thoughts, in my heart and in all I do. I will mention too that my husband lost his dear mother same day two years after you had gone. Well, if you meet, both of you would have a nice time to chat and embrace each other...


Rest in peace dear mother, you will always be remembered as one woman with a true caring and loving heart. REST ON MUM, there are lots to tell you but will tell them to your grave. There are a lot to tell... I still plan to have a Mysthenia Gravis Foundation in your name. Yes I do. This will help others that might suffer like you did... REST ON IYA MI!

10 comments:

Rita said...

May she continue to rest in peace. By God's grace, you will be able to fulfill your noble dream - to have a foundation in her name.

Though it has been eight years, please accept my sincere sympathy. May you always have treasured memories of her in your heart.

Didnt know that your hubby lost his mother same day...

VICKYFF said...

Scarves Scarves
Thanks for your wonderful thoughts, insights and links!

funkola said...

may she continually rest in peace.

aloted said...

wow! your mum would be so proud of all the good work you are doing?

Myne Whitman said...

You look like your mum so much. I'm sure she'll be so proud of you. May her soul continue to rest in peace, and my condolences to your family.

Tales of a Girl in Search of True ♥! said...

May her soul rest in peace!

Good Naija Girl said...

I'm touched by this entry...I'm certain your mom would be proud of the daughter she raised.

beloved said...

may her soul rest in peace, yes you have grown into a fine woman! we are all proud of you, am sure your mum too

tolla said...

she was indeed an epitome of change and change that is positive may she continue to rest on. sun ree oooooooo mummy wa.

StandTall-The Activist said...

Thanks everyone. I am blessed to have you all as part of my world.Thanks for your kind words and thoughts

My Passion, my focus, the change that I want to see in the world - is my propellent factor.

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