Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Cats On Tuesday: MEET MY MOLLY

Letting Molly handle this posting herself will be disastrous as she is currently not in a good mood. She has not been for almost 1 week now.
Molly is never an overly friendly cat and she doesn't even get along with Standtall husband. This is now of a great concern to me as she has refused to come out of her hiding place since Standtall husband got back from his trip a few days ago. She would sneer when they come across each other and dashed off to where she hides.
She got me angry recently when she came and peed on my bed because she could not go and use her litter box which was closer to where Standtall husband was. Why all these? I just don't know why she chose not to get along with him. She keeps grudge with him for always wanting her to be good. They don't see eye to eye any more. She starves herself now because she would rather hide all day instead of looking for a way to get to her food. She hides all day as you can see in the pictures. How do I reconcile this two? I am not sure I know what to do.
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18 comments:

Lolade said...

I guess I'm early. Not that I particularly like cats anyway. How are you? Have a nice day

Standtall said...

Ah Lolade, u dont like cats?

Doja said...

Standtall how many cats do you have? hey are my least favourite pets, they scare me.

Afronuts said...

Why dont u speak to that ur white friend that blogs a lot on cats?

He might have a word or two to help u out

Gattina said...

The only explanation is that Molly is afraid of husband, did he hurt her once ? Cats have terrible memories. they are like little elephants for that. Try to give her some treats, something she loves or better let husband give it to her ! Maybe she is jalous because you give less attention to her. You have to be very patient. Peeing can also be a sign of jalousy !

Abbie said...

Maybe if Mr. Standtall stops kicking her then she'll get along with him lol (no seriously) Tell L to STOP being agbaya towards the poor defensless cat.

Vera Ezimora said...

Standtall, did I or did I not specifically warn you not to update your blog till Jan 14th 2009??? lol.

Awww....poor Molly. Cats are not my favorite animals in da world, but...Molly looks so cute. Tell Hubby to stop looking 4 her trouble.

aloted said...

it appears daddy standtall no get molly's time...e yah..u might need to beg him to be nicer to molly

u know me i no dey gbadun cats so i no fit talk much.

claudie said...

I hope all will get better in a ew days and that you will find the medecin! Perhaps you should try the solution Gattina said in her comment! we stay turned to know the next!

Just Sharlene and My Spice Cats said...

Oh dear. I sure hope Molly comes out of her hiding place soon.

sleek n' catty said...

How can anyone not love cats?
I dont envy you, sha.. cats can be very snobbish. What will she now do when you have a baby?

LusciousRon said...

I don't like cats! They are cute from afar but I don't want them around me.

Take her to the vet.

sleek n' catty said...

Standtall, I will vex for you o!!! Y will you not read my blog post?
I thought I was your number one standtaller? Abi you've relieved me of that post as well?

Babawilly said...

Thanks for stopping by and all the best with the cats

Jewelgirl said...

Molly is cute!

The Invisible Man said...

PUSSY-cats! we love em dont we? lol

Grahamn Kracker said...

I wondered if your husband comes back from a trip carrying a scent that Molly does not like, a scent that scares her. Maybe another cat, or a dog?

But then I think that scent would disappear after a couple of days and everything would be okay.

I will see what I can find out.

Poor Molly! Poor you. Poor hubby!

poeticallytinted said...

awww.. molly is so pretty. I've seen her ill temper first hand. She is just a hairy ball of fire. But i'm sure she'll be okay. Just stroke her a lot.

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